Grommr is a social network and dating site for gainers, bloaters, encouragers and admirers. A ragtag bunch into fat and fatter bellies, chubby men, beer guts, big muscle and chunky muscle, bears and non-bears, and so much more!

46,004 members and growing!

This is a site for guys of a similar mindset—that bigger is, most often, better. Learn more about gaining and encouraging on the Gaining FAQ page. Find out about the Grommr site itself on the About Grommr page. Setting up a profile is free. So sign up now or log on and join the fun.

More interested in chubs and chasers? Then check out our brother site, Chasabl.com!

NewsfeedA Newsfeed that keeps you in touch with the community and your friends

Don't miss out on the hottest topics and latest news: The newsfeed provides a summary of what people are writing on their walls and the comments others are making. You can choose to follow the members you like and stay informed of what they publicly share. Posts you make on your own wall, which are made available to the newsfeed of others, are also a great way to draw some attention to your profile and get discovered by the guys you want to talk to.

Engagement toolsTools to get engaged with other members and the community as a whole

No matter your personality, Grommr has tools you can use to interact with the people you like most. Some users will use the private chat and messaging. Others will like the video chat room, or commenting on photos. The choice is yours. You can follow members, post to their public wall, like their posts and photos (we call that a "Nom"), send them a private message, or just a flirt—a kind of predefined message—to break the ice.

Search featuresPowerful search engine to help you find friends and mates

On Grommr you will find advanced search tools to help you discover guys in your area, who share your interests, who fit your type and have the same kinks as you. No matter what your criteria are, we’ve got a search for it: Age, location, weight, BMI, sexual kinks and preferences, type of body, languages spoken, relationship status, etc. Don't wait any longer to find the gainer, chubby bear, feeder, bloater or encourager of your dreams.

Location-based servicesLocation, location, location

Location is everything! So of course we built our site with powerful location-based tools. On Grommr you can specify your location in your profile by entering a city name, zip/postal code, or even an address (don't worry, it will always remain private). The idea is that the system will translate your location to geographical coordinates to calculate your relative distance to other people. This way you can see who's close to you, sorted by distance. In big cities like New York, Los Angeles, Chicago and London, you want to know who actually lives in your area, not just somewhere in the same vast city. You can do that on Grommr.

MessagingIntegrated messaging and chat

In Grommr, chat and messaging are integrated. If you're busy chatting with others and can't respond to a new message right away, that's fine! The chat message is kept in your inbox and you decide when to answer it. Unless you specifically delete them, conversations are saved so you can always refer to them later. And if both you and the recipient are in for a live chat, you can just keep adding replies to the conversation window: The replies you receive will instantly appear on the page, without the need to refresh the page or keep checking the inbox.

EventsMeet other members in person through our GrommOff events

Through the course of a year Grommr organizes a series of community gatherings aimed at getting more folks to go offline once in a while and get together in person. It's about meeting new people, building friendships and strengthening the bonds of our community. The locations and venues are disclosed in advance on our Events blog page and announcements are posted on Grommr. Don’t miss out on the chance to meet other guys in person from the community in your area!

Mobile siteMobile site optimized for smartphones

Want to keep in touch while on the road? Nothing easier! Just open your phone's mobile browser and access our mobile site at m.grommr.com. The site has been tested on iPhone, Android and Windows Phones, but should also work on other recent devices as well. And don't forget to update your location when you travel! With Grommr Mobile, you can update your location in one click, using a mobile phone that has a GPS/geolocation feature built-in.

Privacy featuresYour privacy matters

Grommr is like a "gated" community. No user content (profiles, posts, photos, etc.) is accessible from Internet search engines such as Google and Yahoo, or from unauthenticated users. In addition to that first layer of privacy, all sensitive data such as your birthdate, email address, location coordinates, is kept confidential. You can also opt to block specific users from accessing your profile and content on the site. Lastly, if you're ever thinking of leaving the site, you can easily delete your profile and all of your user-data will be permanently wiped, no questions asked.

International siteTruly international site, translated in seven languages

Use Grommr in one of the seven languages supported: English, French, German, Spanish, Italian, Portuguese, and Japanese. In addition to languages, Grommr supports many other very useful internationalization features, such as displaying dates and times in your local format, and displaying weights, heights and distances using your preferred unit of measurement. All conversions are made automatically by the system so you don't have to even think about it.

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